Actual Housewives of Dubai star Caroline Stanbury received candid in regards to the struggles of attempting to have a child at age 48.
Caroline is “undecided” whether or not or not she desires to try to get pregnant or use different means, akin to surrogacy, to have a baby together with her husband, Sergio Carrallo, whom she married in December 2021.
“My physician thinks that I might be able to carry yet another baby … and I additionally really feel the healthiest I’ve ever been,” the Bravo star wrote in an essay for Right this moment.com revealed on Friday, June 7. “[But] transferring ahead with having one other child is a troublesome determination at my age.”
Caroline shares daughter Yasmine, 18, and twins Zack and Aaron, 14, with ex-husband Cem Habib. She is aware of Sergio, 29, will likely be “an ideal dad,” including, “He deserves to be a father. And it could possibly be enjoyable! Perhaps I’m higher ready to return into the trenches now. I do know precisely what to anticipate, so I received’t be so overwhelmed by all of it.”
Whereas Caroline and Sergio are exploring all choices, she shared that she battled preeclampsia, a complication leading to persistent hypertension, throughout her previous pregnancies.
“I had preeclampsia with all my kids, and I received very sick with the twins,” Caroline defined. “My kids are towards me carrying a child due to the well being dangers for me.”
Caroline and Sergio began the IVF course of in 2022 and now have one embryo, which the truth star referred to as a “child boy on ice.”
“Understanding that there’s one embryo is thrilling, but it surely’s additionally worrisome for Sergio,” Caroline wrote. “He’s pondering he’d love to do one other spherical of IVF in January subsequent 12 months and check out for an additional embryo or two.”
Caroline recommended to Sergio that they use an egg donor if one other spherical of IVF was unsuccessful, explaining, “Which is a superb possibility that works for many individuals — however that isn’t one thing Sergio would take into account. He desires our child to biologically belong to each of us.”
Along with their ongoing dialog about IVF, Caroline revealed they’re “searching for a surrogate.”
“I by no means thought I’d be ready the place I’m studying how you can discover one other lady to hold my child, and I’m attempting to determine what that may appear like,” Caroline mentioned. “What if she desires to dwell abroad? What if Sergio desires to rub her stomach? There are one million questions that [I] don’t have solutions to proper now.”
It isn’t misplaced on Caroline that she’s going to pivot her life to concentrate on a new child whereas elevating her youngsters.
“Having a child now would imply that whereas Yasmine goes to school, I’m about to go and have a look at nappies once more,” Caroline quipped, including that she in the end desires to have a optimistic influence on others, “The one factor Sergio and I’ve given everyone is hope. I’m exhibiting girls that they’ll go on and begin a complete new life — maybe actually — at 48.”