Rachel Lindsay is happy with how far she has come when addressing large moments in her life.
The previous actuality star, 39, took to her Instagram Story on Saturday, July 6, to share a quote, which learn, “I really like once I notice I’m dealing with a state of affairs higher than my previous self would have.”
Lindsay didn’t supply extra context to the social media submit, which comes amid her ongoing divorce from estranged husband Bryan Abasolo.
Us Weekly confirmed in January that Abasolo, 44, filed for divorce after greater than 4 years of marriage. The pair have since develop into embroiled in a messy authorized backwards and forwards over funds. In paperwork filed late final month, Lindsay requested that the court docket order $9,882 month-to-month in spousal assist, however Abasolo responded by asking to be paid $16,275 month-to-month.
Lindsay and Abasolo met on season 13 of The Bachelorette in 2017 and tied the knot in 2019. Earlier than calling it quits, Lindsay and Abasolo defended their relationship as followers questioned how they may make a bicoastal marriage work.
“What folks don’t notice is we had been just about long-distance earlier than [we got married] with all of the touring that I used to be doing pre-COVID. I didn’t even have a spot some other place, however I used to be by no means at dwelling as a result of I used to be at all times touring,” Lindsay solely informed Us in 2020. “And so for us, you understand, we all know easy methods to work this out and navigate it, and clearly we’ve got an finish objective in thoughts. This isn’t a endlessly state of affairs.”
Shortly after submitting for divorce, Abasolo defended Lindsay from assumptions that she was accountable for issues coming to an finish.
“To be honest, we’ve been dwelling collectively for nearly 3 years right here in LA. Unsure why folks suppose we’ve been aside this whole time,” he wrote by way of Instagram in January. “Sure, her profession got here first, however there have been alternatives for her that had been sensible for her to take which might haven’t been supplied later. It’s onerous as it’s for ladies of colour to get large gigs which I’ve noticed by means of watching Rachel’s efforts.”
Abasolo concluded: “It’s not simply girls who must be anticipated to sacrifice, however a person can do it too. Her constructing her future was not the issue. I might encourage anybody to pursue their goals and hope they’ve a wholesome assist system to take action.”
Lindsay admitted earlier this month that she’s able to date — and she or he even is aware of what she’s in search of subsequent.
“I’m very open to courting. It’s bizarre as a result of I’m months out from the separation — we’re previous it. Now I’m in a spot the place I don’t essentially need to get into the small print of it, however I need to discuss in regards to the therapeutic course of, as a result of it’s very actual,” she shared on the Wednesday, July 3, episode of Scott Evans’ YouTube collection.
Lindsay clarified she isn’t centered on “bodily” attributions as a lot anymore, however there are different traits she finds extra necessary.
“I do need you to be loyal, have a character, adventurous, charming and possibly even a little bit corny. I would like them to be bold but in addition very understanding,” she detailed. “I can not date for potential. I’ve up to now anyone who is aware of who they’re, is aware of what they need, is safe in who they’re and usually are not intimidated.”